Lube is one of the most underrated essentials when it comes to sex, yet it can make a huge difference in comfort, pleasure and protection.
The right lubricant enhances sensation, reduces friction, and helps prevent irritation or condom breakage.
Not all lubricants are created equal.
This guide will break down the three main types of lubricants and help you understand which one works best for your needs.
Why Use Lubricant?
Using lube isn’t just about making things feel better, it’s also about practicing safe sex. Here’s why it should be a staple in your sex life.
Reduces Friction
Without enough natural lubrication, friction can cause discomfort, irritation, and even microtears in the skin, increasing the risk of infections. Lube helps prevent this by creating a smooth, slippery barrier that reduces resistance.
Enhances Pleasure
A good lubricant can heighten sensitivity, making sex feel better for both partners. Whether it’s reducing dryness or adding a silky glide, the right lube can make the experience more enjoyable.
Supports Safe Sex
Condoms are highly effective at preventing STIs and pregnancy but they can break if there’s too much friction.
Lube ensures condoms stay intact and function properly. However, not all lubes are condom-safe, so knowing which ones to use is key.
👉 Not sure if your condom fits right? Use our Condom Size Calculator to find the perfect fit.
Water-Based Lubricants
Water-based lubes are made primarily from water and mixed with thickening agents to create a smooth texture. They are the most common and versatile type of lubricant.
Pros
✔ Safe for all condoms: Works with latex, polyurethane, and polyisoprene condoms
✔ Easy to clean: Rinses off easily with water and doesn’t stain
✔ Lightweight & non-sticky: Feels natural and comfortable
✔ Variety of options: Available in flavored, warming, and cooling formulas
Cons
✘ Dries out faster: May require reapplication during longer sessions
✘ May contain glycerin: Some formulas include glycerin, which can cause irritation for people with sensitive skin
Best For:
- People using condoms for safe sex
- Those who want a lube that’s easy to clean and non-greasy
- Anyone with sensitive skin (opt for glycerin-free versions)
Silicone-Based Lubricants
Silicone-based lubes are made with silicone compounds, giving them a long-lasting, silky texture that doesn’t dry out quickly.
Pros
✔ Long-lasting: Doesn’t evaporate or dry up as quickly as water-based lubes
✔ Great for water play: Ideal for use in the shower, bath, or pool since it’s waterproof
✔ Condom-safe: Works with latex, polyurethane, and polyisoprene condoms
Cons
✘ Harder to wash off: Requires soap and water to fully remove
✘ Not compatible with silicone sex toys: Can degrade the material of silicone toys
✘ More expensive: Generally costs more than water-based lubes
Best For:
- Those looking for a long-lasting lubricant
- Couples who enjoy sex in water (shower, bath, pool)
- People who prefer a silky, smooth glide
Oil-Based Lubricants
Oil-based lubes are made from natural or synthetic oils, such as coconut oil, petroleum jelly, or mineral oil. They provide a thicker, slipperier texture compared to other lubes.
Pros
✔ Natural feel: Some people prefer the texture of oil-based lubes
✔ Multipurpose: Can double as a massage oil
✔ Moisturizing: Some oils have hydrating properties for the skin
Cons
✘ Not safe for latex condoms: Can break down latex, making condoms ineffective
✘ Difficult to clean: Harder to wash off skin and can stain fabrics
✘ Can cause infections: Some oils disrupt the vaginal pH, increasing the risk of infections
Best For:
- Couples not using condoms (safe for pregnancy prevention but not STIs)
- Massage and intimate touch
- Solo play when condom compatibility isn’t a concern
👉 Curious about different condom materials? Check out our guide on condom types to see which works best for you.
Which Lubes Work Best With Condoms?
✔ Water-Based Lube: 100% safe for all condoms, making it the most reliable option.
✔ Silicone-Based Lube: Also condom-safe and lasts longer, but not ideal for use with silicone toys.
Avoid With Condoms
✘ Oil-Based Lube: Breaks down latex and increases the risk of condom failure, leading to possible pregnancy and STI transmission.
💡 Pro Tip: Always check the label. Some lubes claim to be “all-purpose” but may still damage latex. Stick with water-based or silicone-based lubes if you’re using condoms.
Choosing The Right Lube For You
- For Condoms & Safe Sex: Stick to water-based or silicone-based lubes to avoid condom breakage
- For Sensitive Skin: Choose a water-based lube without glycerin or parabens to reduce irritation
- For Shower Play: Use silicone-based lube, as water-based lubes wash away too quickly
- For Massage & Sex (Without Condoms): Oil-based lubes provide a smooth, long-lasting glide but should never be used with latex condoms